This is a superb book that I picked up for a second reading. I own a used copy but with some effort you might find it somewhere:
Here is a small excerpt, which as soon as I read some minutes ago, just knew I had to post it. Apologies for the use of offensive language (to those that requiring such apologies):
Let me remind you before I go on that I don't want you to believe a word I say over this weekend, just listen. Because the reason your lives don't work is that you're all living mechanically in your belief systems instead of freshly in the world of actual experience. You don't look at reality and then construct conclusions, no. No, you did that decades ago. You asswholes are roboting through life with your conclusions, and with your conclusions developed decades ago you are constructing reality! No wonder you've lost all aliveness. No wonder your lives don't work.